Well I did that accidentally and after we’d told the most important people, our families and closest friends. However we were away and on holiday eating cake in our hotel. A last hurrah before the baby. Not the cake but the foreign travel. When suddenly Em takes a massive plate of cake. Photographed in the act I posted to Facebook, not thinking, never thinking I posted “…spot the pregnant plate”. Cue a flurry of Facebook activity. It is good to know you are being stalked and by the most random of people including Em’s friends who i am not friends with (never even met) – I dont mean this in a bad way. So I guess that makes us Facebook official. Maybe i should change my relationship status to in a relationship, i am a few steps behind there. There is a whole post here on the telling of people, work, friends and family. I’ve actually found it very weird telling people, which people themselves find weird I am not openly shouting from the rooftops.